Nostalgic smells – the good ones

I was dozing in my easy chair, when I suddenly smelt something familiar – a baking cake! What was it? Butter cake? Sugee cake? Fruit cake? Memories of preparations for Christmas flooded in. Mum would start the Christmas baking about the beginning of December, the second week of the Advent season. She would be baking into the early hours of the morning.

During the day we, kids would be hauled in to help out with mincing dried mixed fruit, raisins, preserved winter melon, cherries, almonds and everything else that needed mincing and cutting. Our Ah Ee (Aunty) who was our housekeeper and nanny, would be preparing and making the pineapple jam for the jam tarts. As she stirred the grated pineapple and sugar, over the hot stove, the smell of cinnamon and cloves would also emanate from the thick bubbling sweet mixture. When that was done, the baking would start in earnest.

Dad would take leave from work a week before Christmas, which was also during our school holidays. His job was to make the pastry for the jam tarts. Mum would pour in the ingredients following her recipe and Dad would mix them together and knead the dough. Mum was always very precise about the measurements of ingredients, as she wanted a perfectly consistent result.

We’d set up our jam tart ‘factory’ when the dough was ready. Each of us kids had a specific job. I often cut the pastry for the tart bases and the topping decorations. My sisters would be greasing the patty tins and filling in the jam and my brother would be managing the oven. Mum would be the supervisor and overseer of these proceedings. Those were the days when this was our pre-Christmas family activity. It was fun, haggling, shouting, playing with the dough and eating up the rejects that didn’t turn out right. There was, of course, the tasting, which was an excuse to eat some of the good ones before time, as many of the cakes and jam tarts would go to neighbours and friends first.

We always looked forward to the cake making in anticipation of being allowed to lick the spoon and bowl off remnants of raw cake mix, after the cake tins were filled and put into the oven to bake. The smell of baking cakes and tarts was the smell of Christmas!

It also evokes memories of ‘pau'(Chinese steamed buns) suppers after mid-night mass, which in the 1960’s and 70’s actually started at 10.00pm on Christmas eve and ended about 12.00am on Christmas morning with everyone wishing each other ” Merry Christmas!” after the service. It was a jolly time and we even smiled at and greeted people we didn’t know! This rarely happens nowadays when people often only greet the people they know or talk to. Some of the joy seems to have been lost over time, or perhaps as adults we have lost the wonder of childhood in our electronic and scientific less sociable virtual world.

Opting Out : Taking a break…

Many wonder why I seem to be satisfied with just a few readers who care to follow or read my posts here. Thank you to those who appear to wait for a new post with bated breath. I really appreciate that you like what I post and am thankful for you. Others may dip in now and then to see if there’s anything ‘new’ on this blog. My apologies for the erratic posting, but hopefully you’ll gain something from reading my posts. I also notice that a few even take the trouble to go through my archives, thank you for your patience, I hope you find something that appeals to you or something useful to your life. You are certainly free to browse but if you like some material, for any other purpose other than pure interest or curiosity, please be courteous enough to acknowledge where you found the idea or info. It’s not just good manners, it’s also respectful, lawful and truthful to acknowledge your source of info. Not that I’m an expert or authority in life – I’m just a Blogger! Blogging out my inspirations and frustrations, holding a monologue with myself? Or my reader?

It’s my nature to avoid crowds. That’s why I like reading books, wrapping myself in a world far from the noise and stress of reality. Being escapist? May be, but we all need that retreat, especially when you’ve just been in a “dog-fight” that’s frustrating, loud and tense. I needn’t win, I just leave…Well, ” he who runs away lives to fight another day” (Unknown). We all need a break, that’s why I need this opt out habit. The rat race is not for me! Specially at this age when I should be in blissful retirement but am not yet, out of necessity.

Metaphorically, take a break on your personal desert island somewhere in a pleasant stratosphere where you can be yourself. Be pleased with yourself and content with where you’re at. Forget the cringing, back biting, back stabbing, parasitic world. Lie on the hammock within your bubble and rest, relax in happy recuperation and rejuvenation.

Cheers, enjoy your cool coconut water! Lazing around for a little while. Dozing off. Good night, sweet dreams, hope to feel refreshed and much younger when I wake up!

The Unbeliever prays

In a world where words often differ from actions, much is preached by those believers of faith on the spiritual and moral values that should guide our lives and actions. Beautiful words indeed! We all want heaven but do we understand that we have to work for it? We all want peace, freedom, respect of our human dignity, justice and equality, but are we prepared to suffer for it? To win a battle, one has to fight! The agnostic, the atheist, the unbeliever can’t reconcile the confusion where believers words do not match the reality of their actions. The distrust is compounded by the “good guys” that encourage ‘justified’ open war to destroy the “bad guys” . Yet, who has any right to judge another when all are imperfect. All are sinners. Is this judgement by one’s peers, or a judgement of the uninvolved of those involved in this negative reactionary, anti-social act? Few ask, “Why did this happen?”

The world has become more reactionary and defensive in it’s response to the human crisis. The blame game is on, illusions and delusions created using technology’s most efficient tool -AI-ed SOCIAL MEDIA!

So, the Unbeliever resorted to prayer, begging God to sort out the confusion and make “heaven on earth” a possibility… if such exists…

Is there any chance that they who claim to be “believers” will practice what they preach. Stop confusing the unbelievers and driving them away. God will not blame them. It is too complex for the mind to absorb but hypocrisy is a complex animal and should be studied carefully.

I remember one sentence in a book I read, maybe decades ago, that went somewhat like this, ” Hypocrisy is the tribute evil pays to good…” Forgive any inaccuracy, but it made sense to me then and now.

How does one convince the Unbeliever? the Atheist? the Agnostic? the Free thinker? when words don’t match actions, the talk isn’t walked? Do lies become truth by being repeated? This is self-created bad luck, or making a dark prediction become reality, not because it’s true but because it is “self-made truth”. Manufactured and artificial, often without substance or valid reason. Inhumanity marches on to conquer the earth!

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